Premarital Counseling: Building a Relational Foundation for Tomorrow

Welcome to your personalized premarital journey! My program is designed to help you and your partner build a strong foundation for your future together by providing an in-depth analysis of your relationship and personalized tools for communication and conflict resolution.

Key Outcomes of Premarital Counseling Program:

Understand why you react the way you do

Being attuned to your automatic thoughts, which were programmed during the developmental stages of childhood, is crucial for navigating relationships with others and the self. By becoming aware of each other’s default behaviors, we empower our partners to give us the benefit of the doubt in moments of disagreement.

Develop strategies for managing stress

With the perspectives and tools that we will offer while working together, you and your partner will gain a framework for healthier processes. This framework will provide structure for approaching difficult conversations and stressful moments.

Maximize your strengths in your relationship

Believe it or not, you and your partner are doing many things right! We often focus on the negative outcomes of interactions, which doesn't fully acknowledge the individual efforts behind the scenes. By recognizing your strengths in the relationship, you can also appreciate the positive intentions between each other, leading to a stronger sense of empowerment in resolving conflicts.

Get a Clear Picture for Relationship Opportunities 

Our goal in a lasting relationship shouldn't solely revolve around avoiding negative interactions. Fights and disagreements are bound to happen; it's our mindset and commitment to growth that turn these moments into opportunities for personal development.

Are you curious about your relationship's potential? What if I told you that achieving your ideal relationship with your partner is entirely within reach?

Let's work together to create a lifelong partnership filled with love, growth, and happiness. 

Here’ How My Premarital Counseling Progam Work

  • Phase 1: Prepare-Enrich Test

    This session will be a chance for me to get to know you both a bit more, learn about your communication styles, and learn what you love about each other. At the end of this first session, I’ll provide you with a 12-page report outlining your relational strengths and areas of improvement. This document will be invaluable for the duration of the premarital counseling program.

  • Phase 2: Individual Sessions:

    After our first meeting, I will meet with each of you independently. The purpose of these sessions is to help me understand your differing perspectives on areas you both seem to be struggling to meet eye-to-eye on. At the end of the session, I will provide homework specific to the issues I see coming up.

  • Phase 3: Relationship Baseline:

    The Relationship Baseline is your partner’s default ability to manage stress. During this session, I will help you better understand how your partner responds to stress, fostering an understanding of their limitations. The ultimate goal is to empower you and your partner with self-awareness and practical strategies to manage high-tension situations better.

  • Phase 4: Healthy Habits and Tools

    I will help you and your partner focus on reconditioning habits at this stage. With the tools and structure I will provide, you will feel more confident and equipped to solve sensitive subjects and overcome stress with more knowledge of how your partner might react and how you can help (and vice versa).

  • Phase 5: Relationship Roles & Expectations:

    The final stage of the premarital counseling program is to see how expectations and roles in the relationship can be redefined to better suit both partners. This is where open discussion around compromise and negotiation can take place. People change constantly, and at this juncture, we want to make sure everyone’s voices are heard.

  • Phase 6: Working On Relationship Independently.

    The work you do in premarital counseling extends beyond the duration of our time together. When you finish, you’ll be equipped to understand and communicate with your partner better. With clearly laid out expectations, limitations, and understanding for your partner, you’ll have the rest of your life to improve the relationship.

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What Else Is Included in the Premarital Counseling Program?

  • 12-page personalized report based on relationship strengths and areas of improvement

  • Personalized resources or “homework” based on areas of struggle in your session 

  • Baseline Relationship report that reveals your partner’s default reaction to stress so you can understand their limitations better

  • Access to me – certified Marriage and Family counselor with expertise in premarital counseling and helping individuals navigate relational differences

  • A thorough understanding of possible challenges you and your partner will have in the future and resources, tools, and strategies for overcoming them

“The beauty of a new relationship lies in its potential, like a blank canvas waiting to be painted with the colors of love and trust.”
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Reach Out For a Free 30 Minute Consultation Today

It’s important to enter into marriage with eyes wide open. My premarital counseling program helps you gain awareness and tools for fostering a successful relationship with your significant other. If you have any questions about how my program works, I’d be glad to answer them. Reach out to me directly using the button below.